picknot to know whether one is coming or going not to know whether one is coming or going {v. phr.} To be completely confused. He was so perplexed he didn't know whether he was coming or going. Compare: AT SEA (2). Categories: add yours verb Source: A Dictionary of American Idioms 'not to know whether one is coming or going' on video Lil Wayne feat. Bruno Mars - Mirror (Lyrics) Billie Holiday - Don't Know If I'm Comin' Or Goin' White Arrows - Coming Or Going Anthony Albanese 'doesn't know whether he's coming or going' sort: relevance, mode: exact match, q: "not to know whether one is coming or going", maxResults: 4, videoEmbeddable: true, videoSyndicated: true, safeSearch: strict, type: video Subscribe to: American IdiomsEnglish Slang Leave my opinion